Questions To Ask on a First Date

First dates can be scary. You’re never quite sure on how to prepare for it. What to wear, choosing the right time /place, what questions to ask and all that good stuff. There are a million tips on the internet that I suppose are helpful if you’re going on your first date. But what none of them say to the reader is to just be them self’s. I think that’s that most important thing is TO JUST BE YOUR SELF AND JUST LET THINGS FALL IN TO PLACE. I always made a mistake of rushing things and making my life seem so perfect. But it’s not no one’s life is perfect everyone has problems, issues etc it’s what life’s is all about. Anyways back to the questions to ask on the first date I always get side tracked lol.

Questions To Ask On a First Date

1. What is your favorite scene from your favorite book or movie?Talking about mass media and pop culture can clue you in to similar interests and world views. “Books, movies, and music all transmit powerful messages of hope or emotion. “If you have radically different preferences, there may be some fundamental differences between the way the two of you look at the world.” But asking your date to name his or her favorite scene can help you distill what’s important to him or her beyond just genre.

2. What do you love about your job?

The standard, “What do you do?” is a closed question that doesn’t reveal much about a person other than a job title. But if you phrase the career question a bit differently, you can delve into your date’s likes and dislikes; reveal his or her strengths; see how he or she handles conflict; and find out how happy this person is with life overall. Think about the different impressions you’ll form if your date answers the question, “Knowing that I’m helping people fulfill their dream” versus “Deciding what to order for lunch!”

3. What is your definition of a relationship

?Granted, it takes a bit of build up to ask this question (usually, once you begin discussing your dating histories, you can slip this one in), but it’s worth asking. Does your date want to be wined and dined, or are you both looking for a 50/50 relationship? It’s too soon to know what this specific potential relationship will look like, but a question like this lets you share your expectations and fundamental beliefs. “And if your date’s answer is outside the range of what you consider acceptable, you’ve saved yourself future heartbreak by finding out before you fall for him or her.YAY NO MORE BROKEN HEARTS IN THE WORLD.

4. If money were no object, what would you do with your life?This tried-and-true icebreaker showcases your date’s hopes, dreams, and even regrets topics that often remain untouched by even serious romantic partners. The answers can range from a desire to travel to going back to school to learning how to play the violin. Two buttoned-up stockbrokers might discover they both share a secret longing to be athletes or a shared devotion to public service. Your date’s response will help clue you in to common goals and interests that go beyond what you do on a day-to-day basis.

5. Will you share an embarrassing moment with me?

This fun question is great to ask when a date has gotten a little tense or quiet, because it reveals both details of your date’s history and his or her character. Just know that you may have to share an awkward experience first in order to make your date feel comfortable. So make it clear that you’re not looking for dirt on that plagiarism incident in 11th grade, but rather something goofy, like the time you drove a golf cart into the water and so forth.

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remember to be yourself and remember to relax and enjoy yourself life is too short to worry about small things. Hope this helped someone out there. I would also like for you to share your own experiences and questions you ask on your first date? Looking forward to reading them all That’s it for now